MISS MARY CAMILLA NURNEY
Red Cross Nurse
Died from influenza contracted while nursing sick soldiers. Buried with full military honors.
By: Jocelyn Hillard, American Red Cross
As we mark Veterans Day—a time to honor the courage and sacrifice of those who have served in the armed forces—we also reflect on the many individuals whose contributions have supported our military and strengthened our communities. Among these heroes is Mary Camilla Nurney of Stamford, Connecticut, a Red Cross nurse whose compassion and commitment continue to inspire more than a century later.
Mary’s story is one of unwavering service. During World War I, as the Spanish influenza swept across the globe, she was preparing to serve overseas. But when soldiers in her hometown fell ill, she chose to remain in Stamford to care for them. Without hesitation, she answered the call—placing duty above destination and compassion above recognition.
In the fall of 1918, just eleven days after contracting the disease herself while tending to those soldiers, Mary passed away. Her sacrifice was quiet, yet deeply profound. So moved by her dedication, the soldiers she cared for insisted she receive a military funeral—an extraordinary honor at a time when nurses were not formally recognized as veterans.
This year, Mary was honored on the Memorial Monolith in Stamford Veterans Memorial Park as the first woman recognized. Her inclusion as a Gold Star figure—a title traditionally reserved for those who die in military service—reflects the deep respect for her sacrifice and the lasting impact of her service.
Lucian Terranova, Red Cross Connecticut Board Member, and Richard Branigan, CEO of the Red Cross Connecticut and Rhode Island Region, stand beside the engraving of Mary Nurney on the Memorial Monolith at Stamford Veterans Memorial Park. Mary Nurney is the first woman to be honored on the monument.
Mary’s legacy is deeply woven into the history and mission of the American Red Cross. She was part of a tradition that began with Clara Barton, the organization’s founder, who believed that care should be impartial and rooted in humanity. Clara famously said, “I may be compelled to face danger, but never fear it, and while our soldiers can stand and fight, I can stand and feed and nurse them.”
Today, the Red Cross continues to carry forward that legacy. Thousands of nurses and health professionals respond to disasters, support military families, collect lifesaving blood, and provide comfort and care in times of crisis. Their work is a living tribute to Mary Nurney and others like her—those who choose service and compassion over self.
As we honor Veterans Day, let us also remember the caregivers, healers, and humanitarians who have stood beside our service members throughout history. Mary Nurney’s life reminds us that heroism is not only found in combat, but also in the steadfast acts of care that uphold the values of service, sacrifice, and community.
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