By Marc Coronel, Proud Son of a U.S. Navy Gulf War Veteran/American Red Cross

This Memorial Day, Gerald Thomas, Chief Operating Officer of the American Red Cross Los Angeles Region, traveled to Arlington National Cemetary to honor fallen soldiers by placing a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. This solemn act is deeply personal for Thomas, a retired Marine Corps infantry officer and two-tour combat veteran. His 21 years of military service were characterized by bravery, devotion, and a profound sense of duty.

“As a retired Marine and combat veteran, placing a wreath at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier holds deep significance,” Thomas explains. “It’s an honor to place a wreath at this monument, which symbolizes the collective memory of fallen warriors and recognizes the unwavering commitment of all who serve.” 

For Thomas, this act of remembrance is not just ceremonial—it’s a deep connection to his own experiences and memories. “During my time stationed at the Pentagon, I attended several funerals of Marines that I served alongside. Having the opportunity to lay this wreath gives me a chance to honor their sacrifice.”

Thomas emphasizes the importance of recognizing the sacrifices of those who served alongside him, especially those who are not individually known or remembered. 

“Growing up, Memorial Day was the official start of summer and signified the end of the school year and the coming summer vacation. As a combat veteran, I now use this time to reflect and remember friends who are no longer with us. Men and women who will never spend another summer vacation with their families.”

In his current role with the Red Cross, Thomas finds particular significance in the organization’s Service to the Armed Forces programs where members of the military, veterans, their families, and caregivers prepare for, manage, and respond to the challenges of service. The Hero Care Network helps families communicate with their loved ones and facilitate their return home. As a company commander in combat in Iraq, Thomas’ First Sergeant received one of these emergency messages. His father had a massive heart attack. The Red Cross found the service member and got him home within 48 hours. 

Through his act of placing the wreath, Thomas hopes to convey a message of gratitude and remembrance. “The wreath laying ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier demonstrates gratitude to families of the fallen by honoring their loved ones’ sacrifice. It serves as a solemn reminder that their loss is not forgotten, and their service is deeply appreciated.”

In laying the wreath, Thomas not only honors the memory of those who have fallen but also reaffirms his dedication to serving those who serve. This Memorial Day, his act of remembrance stands as a powerful testament to the enduring spirit of sacrifice and service.

About the American Red Cross: 

The American Red Cross shelters, feeds and provides comfort to victims of disasters; supplies about 40% of the nation's blood; teaches skills that save lives; distributes international humanitarian aid; and supports veterans, military members, and their families. The Red Cross is a nonprofit organization that depends on volunteers and the generosity of the American public to deliver its mission. For more information, please visit redcross.org/la.