The wildfires out west are forcing thousands of people from their homes. For some, the fires have claimed everything they own. For others, the evacuation orders have come more than once. The situation is devastating and extremely stressful for those impacted by the fires and the American Red Cross offers these steps for people to take care of their emotional health as well as that of their family and friends.
HOW YOU MAY BE FEELING
When you experience a disaster you may:
Feel physically and mentally drained
Have difficulty making decisions or staying focused on topics
Become easily frustrated on a frequent basis
Argue more with family and friends
Feel tired, sad, numb, lonely or worried
Experience changes in appetite or sleep patterns
Most of these reactions are temporary and will go away over time. Try to accept whatever reactions you may have. Look for ways to take one step at a time and focus on taking care of your disaster-related needs and those of your family.
WHAT YOU CAN DO
Take care of your safety. Find a safe place to stay and make sure your physical health needs and those of your family are addressed. Seek medical attention if necessary.
Get some rest.
Stay connected with family and friends. Giving and getting support is one of the most important things you can do
Be patient with yourself and with those around you. Recognize that everyone is stressed and may need some time to put their feelings and thoughts in order.
Set priorities. Tackle tasks in small steps.
Gather information about assistance and resources that will help you and your family members meet your disaster-related needs.
SIGNS YOU MAY NEED ADDITIONAL HELP
Many people typically feel better after a few days. Others find that their stress does not go away as quickly as they would like and it influences their relationships with their family, friends and others. If you find yourself or a loved one experiencing some of the feelings and reactions listed below for 2 weeks or longer, this may be a sign that you need to reach out for additional assistance:
Crying spells or bursts of anger
Losing interest in things
Increased physical symptoms such as headaches or stomachaches
Feeling guilty, helpless or hopeless
Avoiding family and friends
CHILDREN AND DISASTERS
Children experience traumatic events differently. Experiencing a disaster can leave children feeling frightened, confused and insecure, particularly if this experience is not their first.
Because they can’t always talk about their worries, it sometimes comes out in a child’s behavior. Some may react immediately; others may be fine for weeks or months and then show troubling behavior. Knowing the signs that are common at different ages can help parents recognize problems and respond accordingly.
They may be more agitated or act out
They may be more clingy or cry often
They may need more attention or reassurance from adults they trust
Scary memories become attached to the sounds, sights and smells that happen at the time of the experience. It’s important to remind children that they are remembering the scary thing that happened; that it is not happening now.
Here are a few tips for talking to children after a traumatic event:
Provide children with opportunities to talk
Don’t be afraid to admit you don’t have all the answers
Allow kids to discuss their fears and concerns
Answer questions appropriate for their age
For additional resources, contact your local Red Cross Disaster Mental Health or community mental health professional. Please seek immediate help if you or someone you know is feeling that life isn’t worth living or if you are having thoughts of harming yourself or others. You can also contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or SuicidePreventionLifeline.org.