• Age-Appropriate Toys, Games and Activities to Support Child Development

    Babysitter playing with toy cars with a young child.

    Date Published: May 14, 2025

    Play isn’t just about keeping kids entertained — it’s one of the most powerful tools for learning and growth in early childhood. Play is a way young children can naturally explore, experiment, and understand the world around them.

    The right toys and activities can help young children reach key developmental milestones, foster brain development, and build emotional and social skills. Whether you're a parent, teacher, babysitter, or caregiver, understanding what’s developmentally right for each age group can make playtime more purposeful and fun.

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    Why Age-Appropriate Play Matters

    Selecting the right toys, games and activities for children at different ages is essential for their development. We will guide you through understanding the unique needs and abilities of children at various stages, from infants to older school-age children and how to choose toys that support their physical, emotional and cognitive growth.

    Each stage of a child’s growth comes with unique needs and abilities, and selecting the right toys can help support their physical, social, emotional and cognitive development. Let’s explore age-appropriate toys and activities to help every child thrive.

    Toys, Games and Activities to Encourage Developmental Milestones

    Newborn–6 Months

    Infants, from newborn to 12 months, benefit from toys that simulate their senses and support their rapid development.

    Age-Appropriate Toys, Games and Activities (6 Months and Younger)

    • Toys with Bright Colors, high contrast and simple designs
    • Mobiles, activity mats and play mirrors
    • Soft dolls, stuffed animals and squeeze toys
    • Teething rings and rattles
    • Picture books and nursery rhymes
    • Musical and light-up toys
    • Peek-a-boo and clapping games

    6 Months–12 Months

    Age-Appropriate Toys, Games and Activities (6 Months and Older)

    • Floor activity centers and activity quilts
    • Toys that move or make noise
    • Toys that open and shut, fill, and stack, push or pull
    • Toys that can be squeezed, dropped, poked, twisted or thrown
    • Picture books and stories

    Toddlers (1–3 Years Old)

    Toddlers, aged 1 to 3 years, are energetic explorers who thrive on curiosity and movement.

    Age-Appropriate Toys, Games and Activities (Ages 1-3 Years Old)

    • Dolls, stuffed animals and action figures
    • Simple dress-up play (e.g., funny hats)
    • Toys that push, pull, pop up and make noises (e.g., trains)
    • Play scenes that look like real places (e.g. farms)
    • Crayons, watercolor paints, finger paints and coloring books
    • Toys that fill, lug, dump, sort or stack (e.g., trucks and cups)
    • Large balls that can be rolled and kicked

    Preschoolers (3–4 Years Old)

    Preschoolers, aged 3 to 4 years, are eager learners who love to explore, create, and engage with others.

    • Dress-up and pretend toys (e.g., superhero costumes or play kitchens)
    • Puppets, stuffed animals, dolls and action figures
    • Building blocks, simple arts and crafts and playdough
    • Toys with realistic detail and working parts
    • Cars, trains and planes
    • Simple board games
    • Outside games with simple rules (e.g., Duck Duck Goose and Red Light, Green Light)
    • Physical activities (e.g., jumping, climbing, catching, throwing, kicking, and riding tricycles)
    • Picture books and listening to stories

    Younger School-Age Child (5–7 Years Old)

    Younger school-age children, aged 5-7 years, are growing rapidly and becoming more independent. These activities help them develop their reasoning skills and understand the cause and effect, making them better able to follow rules and enjoy praise for good behavior.

    • Arts and crafts and modeling clay
    • Puppets, miniature dolls and action figures
    • Physical activities and sports (e.g., kickball, bike riding and jump rope)
    • Secret languages and passwords
    • Simple math and word games
    • Picture and chapter books

    Older School-Aged Child (8–10 Years Old)

    Older school-age children, aged 8 to 10 years, experience significant growth in height and weight while becoming more self-sufficient.

    • Video and handheld electronic games
    • Board Games
    • Physical activities and sports (e.g., soccer, whiffle ball and basketball)
    • Robotics, building, science and magic kits (e.g., airplanes made with interlocking blocks)
    • Musical instruments
    • Chapter books, graphic novels and journals

    Tip: Let them take the lead in choosing projects — they’ll be more engaged and feel empowered.

    Become a Confident Babysitter

    Babysitters and caregivers who understand the stages of play and development can be better equipped to keep children safe, engaged, and happy. Whether you’re new to childcare or want to level up your babysitting skills, understanding child development helps you do more than supervise — it enables you to nurture, guide, and inspire.

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    Whether you’re just starting or want to strengthen your skills, babysitting classes and child care courses equip you with the tools and knowledge to keep kids safe, engaged, and happy—while giving parents peace of mind.

    Once you’ve built a foundation of knowledge, having the right tools at your fingertips makes daily caregiving even easier.

    Play is how children learn best. Offering toys and activities that align with developmental stages helps kids grow stronger, smarter, and more confident. Whether you’re stacking blocks with a baby or solving puzzles with a 7-year-old, you’re building more than skills — you’re building connection, trust, and joy. The right knowledge, tools, and mindset make every play session a powerful opportunity to support healthy childhood development.

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